People rarely say those things to my INTP, but sometimes people will approach me about it. "Why doesn't he like me?" "Is he angry?" "Why didn't he say anything?"
I might say, "Don't worry about it, he doesn't normally talk a lot."
Or if I'm in a snarky mood, "Oh he's a traditionalist, strong but silent. Next time ask him about cars. Or sports." (and imagine with malicious glee the discomfort that will cause him)
The reality: He's quiet because he's bored, and he doesn't like or dislike you; that would require more emotion than he cares to put into it.