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    Default I called my mates wife ugly at dinner

    So some time back, went to dinner with a mate of mine and his wife, and I ended up telling him his wife was ugly while she was sitting there. After that we not spoken since that night. Its been over a year now. Do you think I should just say sorry and blame the drink? or are they being really petty and I should not bother?

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    She also had ugly feet too, but I did not mention that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by King T View Post
    She also had ugly feet too, but I did not mention that.
    So, actually, this is what bothers you. Maybe you should contact them and say what's really on your mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by King T View Post
    She also had ugly feet too, but I did not mention that.
    I think you should.

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    she must have been really ugly for you to not be able to restrain yourself and say it to her right to her face...
    definitely apologize bro.
    + you seem like a really shallow person

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    Quote Originally Posted by wastrd View Post
    I think you should.
    Yeah, if you don't mention it that idea will eat at you from the inside for a long time.
    Whoops.

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    Pretend nothing happened and call them to hang out. I'm a big believer in letting sleeping dogs lie.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Pretend nothing happened and call them to hang out. I'm a big believer in letting sleeping dogs lie.
    This.

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    Definitely apologize to the friend if you want to keep the friendship. What you did wasn't something you can just gloss over, IMO.
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    If it's been more than a year, you shouldn't mention it. Just call.


    If he brings it up, apologize.

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