So, on the phone last night discussing the cat as her time frame to come back to the UK is July 24th to August 26th from Canada.
I love the cat, so do my children. But i am having a serious moral dilemma over this one. I don't want her back as she was part of a family, that family doesn't exist anymore so she will be a reminder of 'him'. The flight almost 7 odd hours is torture for anyone never mind a cat in Cargo. If she doesn't pass inspection here she will have to go into quarantine for 6 months or go back to Canada (cant afford quarantine). He told me last night, he wont bring her over as he doesn't want to see me and rehash all those emotions. He is willing to pay for the ticket (on credit card) and let a friend come for a weeks holiday here, only down side is if she goes back as failing the inspection, that person wont be having a holiday here.
She has been part of the family for 2 years, but he also said that when he sees Kate with the cat, it doesn't feel right as i am her mummy and he is the daddy. Kate loves the cat however and will be sad if she leaves. The cat seems happy with her new life over there.
The kids feel sad though that she may not be coming back.
I am torn.
What would you do if you was me? Bring her back to the UK or keep her in Canada.
And if anyone says its just a cat .. Well, i will not be held responsible for my actions.