User Tag List

First 123

Results 21 to 25 of 25

  1. #21
    Protocol Droid Athenian200's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2007
    MBTI
    INFJ
    Enneagram
    4w5
    Posts
    8,828

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Lookin4theBestNU View Post
    The first are self-evaluations:
    do I have time?
    what kind/level of friendship is this likely to be?
    do I have something to offer this person?
    for them:
    must have the ability to discern opinion from fact
    I share those. But I also have a requirement that that they don't treat me badly, or do anything that makes them dangerous or inhibitory to me. But I've been known to distance myself from someone because I got a bad "vibe." I'm weird that way.

  2. #22
    Senior Member reason's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    MBTI
    ESFJ
    Posts
    1,211

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Lookin4theBestNU View Post
    must have the ability to discern opinion from fact
    It is not a matter of opinion, but a matter of fact, that every proposed fact is a matter of opinion.

    Besides, they're spelled differently :P
    A criticism that can be brought against everything ought not to be brought against anything.

  3. #23
    Senior Member Vortex's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    MBTI
    WOLF
    Posts
    277

    Default

    I have quite a few acquaintences, fewer friends. It takes quite a lot to get into my inner circle.

    But to spend time with me, my only condition is that people do not bore me excessively, abuse me, or piss me off too often. Luckily, I genuinely find most people relatively interesting and usually think of people as 'misguided' or 'on the wrong track' rather than evil or vicious. I try to like people, but the only way to do that is to have a couple of inches of bulletproof glass between them and me.

  4. #24
    Senior Member girlnamedbless's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2007
    MBTI
    ESFJ
    Posts
    186

    Default

    Not at all. I'll be friends with anyone that can hold a conversation.
    I bet they'll put something in the air tonight, just to light your face.

  5. #25
    Permabanned
    Join Date
    May 2007
    MBTI
    INTJ
    Enneagram
    5w6 sp/sx
    Socionics
    ILE
    Posts
    11,925

    Default

    I'd say money. After all, friends do, in fact, cost money.

Similar Threads

  1. [MBTItm] SPs, do you have any advice for an NF on how to better enjoy the "now"?
    By TheEmeraldCanopy in forum The SP Arthouse (ESFP, ISFP, ESTP, ISTP)
    Replies: 27
    Last Post: 06-19-2010, 11:02 PM
  2. Replies: 17
    Last Post: 07-29-2008, 12:14 PM
  3. Do you have goals and dreams?
    By Kiddo in forum General Psychology
    Replies: 15
    Last Post: 01-21-2008, 09:09 PM
  4. Has anyone heard of Global Dimming and if so what are your thoughts on it??
    By ladypinkington in forum Science, Technology, and Future Tech
    Replies: 42
    Last Post: 09-16-2007, 06:13 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
Single Sign On provided by vBSSO