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    Quote Originally Posted by Antisocial one View Post
    This has nothing to do with onus and Sy has already gave you a right answer in my opinion. This is just a case of cause and efect principle.

    Can you see a certain logic behind my claim ?
    I can see it, but it triggers me to anger because I feel that in respecting the logic I am going against my belief that I should not have to modify my behaviour for anyone.

    Can you use your logic to understand the emotional reaction this could cause in someone of my type? To be forced by societies standards to modify my behaviour?



    Maybe to you two it is but that does not mean that the same works for others.
    Well I doubt me and amar are only 2 lone voices that find this attitude appalling.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BerberElla View Post
    I can see it, but it triggers me to anger because I feel that in respecting the logic I am going against my belief that I should not have to modify my behaviour for anyone.

    Can you use your logic to understand the emotional reaction this could cause in someone of my type? To be forced by societies standards to modify my behaviour?

    I'd walk around naked if I could. Boohoo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    Exactly.



    Of course. But you have to be smart about this stuff. And willing to take the heat.

    Clubs are PUBLIC spaces. They are not private parties. Letting go is fine and dandy as long as you are aware of the risks. I mean I could be "letting go" and doing the chicken dance in a house club...I'd have to be prepared to be laughed at :P
    Haha true.

    Oh well, I refuse to change the way I am, so I guess I shall just have to learn a nice mean right hook.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    I'd walk around naked if I could. Boohoo.


    Stop making sense damn you.
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    ^Amen, sister.
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    Clearly an ENFP thing.

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    Sure, coz other types of women never get harassed by jerks
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    Quote Originally Posted by JivinJeffJones View Post
    Well yeah, but you're an INFP.
    No way.

    After reading all of this, I'm shocked you haven't always considered yourself ENFP, Berb. ("Sexual... miscommunication" is a classic ENFP problem.)
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    I think this requires understanding cause and effect.

    If someone is sending off very sexual vibes what are you communicating to others and what are they interpreting your communication as? Are you communicating yourself the way you want to? Why are people misinterpreting? How often are you misinterpreted? Why are people reacting to you in a way you don't want them to react on a consistent basis?
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by iwakar View Post
    After reading all of this, I'm shocked you haven't always considered yourself ENFP, Berb.

    Really? I must admit I am still not completely sure that I am, one minute I am sure I am, then I'm caused doubt again lol damn it.
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