"How dreadful!" cried Lord Henry. "I can stand brute force, but brute reason is quite unbearable. There is something unfair about its use. It is hitting below the intellect." ~ Oscar Wilde - The picture of Dorian Gray
I think we need dating experts in here, not ones on psychology.
I would like to submit a formal request that the one for Jewelchild be stricken from this list as evidence for this forum being romantically desperate regardless of whether she is or not seeing as it was posted against her will.
The one for d@v3 counts twofold however because he's extremely desperate.
"I am what I need to be..."
"Nemo me impune lacessit - No one provokes me with impunity."