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    Default Top 10 Bothering Things about Feelers

    I'm jumping on the bandwagon here, so here is my assembled list!

    10: Find those who are not sympathetic to a cause to be a cold-hearted sociopath.
    9: Look at everything in a subjective manner, which can be very problematic when you attempt to make a hard descision.
    8: Take everything you say, do and give personally.
    7: Tend to be so very overly emotional, which is frightening.
    6: They want people to talk about their feelings, so the Ts have to search for the right words to describe the weird sensation they have.
    5: They talk about their feelings, which Ts tend to find boring.
    4: When they tell you of a problem, they want sympathy, not solutions, which is mind boggling.
    3: Misinterpret what you say for how you said it, or multiple definitions, in any possible way that makes them miserable. (Remember Occam's Razor? Think about it to get a good picture of what they should try to do.)
    2: Expect everyone to be mind readers, especially EFs.
    1: Take inability to mind read as a 'You don't care about me' gesture.

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    Welcome to the complaint department take a number and have a seat. We'll get to you when we can...

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    Yeah, I hate it when feelers use those things.. like. Emotions? is that the right word? Yeah. I hate those. They're absolutely bothering.
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    When they bring up dream interpretation.

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    Hate is the way NT's feel love.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gewitter27 View Post
    I'm jumping on the bandwagon here, so here is my assembled list!

    10: Find those who are not sympathetic to a cause to be a cold-hearted sociopath.
    9: Look at everything in a subjective manner, which can be very problematic when you attempt to make a hard descision.
    8: Take everything you say, do and give personally.

    7: Tend to be so very overly emotional, which is frightening.
    6: They want people to talk about their feelings, so the Ts have to search for the right words to describe the weird sensation they have.
    5: They talk about their feelings, which Ts tend to find boring.
    4: When they tell you of a problem, they want sympathy, not solutions, which is mind boggling.
    3: Misinterpret what you say for how you said it, or multiple definitions, in any possible way that makes them miserable. (Remember Occam's Razor? Think about it to get a good picture of what they should try to do.)
    2: Expect everyone to be mind readers, especially EFs.
    1: Take inability to mind read as a 'You don't care about me' gesture.

    I expect a 'Top 10 Bothering Things about Thinkers' to come up soon...
    The bolded do not apply to all or even most Fs, by a long shot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Hate is the way NT's feel love.
    "There are two wolves fighting in the heart of every man. One is called love and one is called hate." - "And which one does win in the end ?" - "The one you nurture the most" xD

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gewitter27 View Post
    I'm jumping on the bandwagon here, so here is my assembled list!

    10: Find those who are not sympathetic to a cause to be a cold-hearted sociopath.
    9: Look at everything in a subjective manner, which can be very problematic when you attempt to make a hard descision.
    8: Take everything you say, do and give personally.
    7: Tend to be so very overly emotional, which is frightening.
    6: They want people to talk about their feelings, so the Ts have to search for the right words to describe the weird sensation they have.
    5: They talk about their feelings, which Ts tend to find boring.
    4: When they tell you of a problem, they want sympathy, not solutions, which is mind boggling.
    3: Misinterpret what you say for how you said it, or multiple definitions, in any possible way that makes them miserable. (Remember Occam's Razor? Think about it to get a good picture of what they should try to do.)
    2: Expect everyone to be mind readers, especially EFs.
    1: Take inability to mind read as a 'You don't care about me' gesture.

    I expect a 'Top 10 Bothering Things about Thinkers' to come up soon...
    LOL, yeah that one is sooo true. I can never get myself around the fact that people won't accept a perfectly logical solution to something they complain about. It's looks just like denial to me.

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    Nope, it's not that. Fs need to bleed off the emotions that are bothering and immobilizing them before they can get on with the solutions. The sooner they can be done with them (usually through brief sympathy) the quicker they'll move on. When they don't get a little sympathy or time to talk about what's bugging them they get topped up with even more emotions that they have to deal with before they can get solving the problem. They also don't want your solution nearly as much as they want to come up with one themselves. It's just a different process than you naturally use.

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    All completely justified.

    Some of those things apply to a lot of T's aswell, they are just less likely to realise they're doing it.
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