I identify as asexual, but most people don't really believe me. I could probably force myself to have sex with someone that I was very attracted to romantically, but it's not the first thing on my mind when I'm meeting someone new, and sexual attraction definitely isn't a necessary prerequisite in order for me to begin to feel romantic attraction to someone. In fact, I hope to find someone who feels the same way that I do someday, so that we both can understand that.. I don't want to deprive my partner of sex if it's something they want on a daily / weekly / monthly basis, and it's something that I would rarely be willing to do. It's just not there.