What type were/are your parents? Could/can you get along with them and could they get along with each other? Were/are they good parents? I'm just curious what childhood experiences you all had with your parents.
My father is an ENTJ, my mother is an ISFP. They met in 1978 and got married in 1980. My mother was from Hungary and she had to move to the Netherlands. My parents were married for almost eleven years when I was born and by then it seemed like the love had faded away a long time ago. I never had any brothers and sisters. My parents didn't really have a social life and my father was always very dominant. My mother wanted to devorce my dad 4 years ago, but in the end she didn't do that.
When I was little, I could really get along with my dad. We always went to do a lot of stuff together. When we went to do stuff together, my dad always started to philosophise out loud. When I became eleven, we became less and less close. Back then, he seemed kind of threatening to me, because he tried to push me to get good grades and stuff. There was a time when we had fights all the time or didn't speak anymore. That stopped when my dad got a job at my school. He saw what idiots he had to teach and work together with and now it seems like he understands me more.
My mother was always a very emotional person. She always kept her feelings secret and never told me anything, even though I felt that there was something wrong and she knew it. She usually kept these things secret for a long time and in the end she ends up doing stupid things. When I got older, I became a kind of therapist to her. Then she told me everything. Even things I don't want to know. She's also always comparing her behaviour when she was a child with mine, even though she lived in Hungary and she was born in 1957 and I'm living in the Netherlands and I was born in 1991. But she's sweet. Too sweet.