I have never had this experience before, but on this socionics forum I recently joined, an ESFp (probably ESFP in MBTI maybe something else like ENFJ or INFJ? But not sure) decided to completely rip me a new a**hole. Seriously.
I was simply listing my boyfriends personality traits because people asked me to list them (so they could objectively ascertain his type apart from my assumption that he's ISFJ, long story). I didn't insult anyone. My post was positive. I listed stuff he does/behaviors/stuff he likes, etc. NO big deal.
And then all of a sudden this girl responds to EACH thing I said, line by line, with a wrong assumption about what I meant and then an insult to me. I was called stupid, dumb, pathetic, told to "grow up" twice, etc. I am still reeling. I DON'T GET IT. What did I do? I have not experienced such a senseless attack... EVER.
I almost teared up.
In socionics, ESFps and ISFps are "extinguishment" relations; this means they basically take the light out of each other's fires. But I have never had a run-in with any ESFP. EVER. Neither have they ever tried to make me feel bad like this girl did, that I know of.
WHAT THE HELL?
Sorry to just rant, but I don't get it. I was belittled so repeatedly and so cruelly.
UGH. I truly feel depressed over this.