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    Quote Originally Posted by Mo_(operalover) View Post
    And how would you advise one to be more assertive?

    I find it very hard to strike a balance between being nice and being assertive and I often veer between being never says no to anything very nice and a total jerk. I can't just be assertive. I don't know how.
    Do you believe your still a jerk if your being assertive or "A jerk" for a very good reason?
    So yeah, assertive but nice... how...?
    Being assertive really has nothing to do with being nice, just say what you mean. And hope the other person understands, you're not responsible for how they react or feel.

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    Assertiveness is whatever I say it is. Punk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oberon View Post
    Assertiveness is whatever I say it is. Punk.
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