Honestly, I think you're wrong about me being an ESTJ. I'm just a female ENTJ. We are better (still not good though) at hiding certain aspects we believe will come off as unpleasant. It was the J/P I was closest on, in terms of numbers.
There is a common English word that is nine letters long. It is possible to remove one letter at a time and it still remains an English word, from nine letters right down to a single letter. What is the original word, and what are the words that it becomes each time you remove one letter?
The first word is how I feel about liking you so much.
The second is about where we're at.
The third word is something you've caught me doing.