It's a love hate relationship. Haha. I hate to love them. I love to hate them. It really depends on their maturity. Certainly, there needs to be respect between parties. If we can find some common ground to co-operate on, things can go great. If were competitive... well... when two tigers fight for teritory... one dies... the other leaves injured...
Having said that my best friend and roommate is also an ENTJ. Love at first sight.
I do like people of my type. Two of my best friends are INTPs, though I'm pretty sure one is an INFP who tested wrong.
I find that a lot of the normal disagreements and misunderstandings between people gets bypassed when with them, and all INXXs to an extent. But with INXPs, sometimes we get trapped in perpetual indecision, even after we've come up with the perfect plans of action.
I really really really really really like ENTP's IRL. I don't have to edit myself, they are engaging and I always get a feeling that we are on the verge of inventing the Delorean or something similarly awesome when I spend time with them.
"Beware Those Who Are ALWAYS READING BOOKS" - Bukowski
I think I know 2 ISTJ guys in my lectures at uni - we speak from time to time but obviously none of us has extended the branch of friendship to each other. They seem nice. I know no ISTJ girls. I do have a female ESTJ flatmate though and I think she's brilliant; I'm still grateful to her for standing solidly by me through the most horrific moments of my life a couple of years ago. Honestly no-one else could have dealt with it, and would have chickened out; she could take it and put up with it. She's got a great sense of humour, we enjoy talking about similar things and I admire her energy! She's always doing something new and is so ambitious.
I don't believe all this stuff about SJs being the most common type? If they are, why do I barely know any? Unless we're evenly spread out across the world to ensure that in every location there will be at least one responsible person willing to follow out duties and get the place running smoothly...