There's a difference in personal writing style between you two. His line about 2008 "kicking his dick in the dirt" via that "bitch goddess" is classic shocking-and-maybe-a-bit-offensive ENTP...he just doesn't put things gently the way ENFPs do. ENTPs aren't afraid to bluntly tell you that you've asked a stupid question; ENFPs make every effort to be personally accomodating until given a good reason not to. ENFPs simply act more politely toward others by default--they generally have to be convinced that you've intentionally done something mean before they'll turn their Ne toward something other than positive/reassuring responses.
Granted, ENTPs usually aren't overtly rude until given a good reason to be, but our default mode of writing and expression is more blunt, straightforward and less focused on preserving the feelings of others. ENFPs don't generally consider stupidity on its own to be an offense worthy of aggressive admonition--but we do. They won't turn on you until they think you've willfully disrespected someone's feelings or their feeling-based value systems. ENTPs don't need this criterion; just showing stupidity is enough for us to at least point out pretty bluntly that you're wrong. T, I say.