While we're fessing up about our manlyness, this is what I really look like;
Anja, why the hell does it matter? If someone represents themselves as a gender then so be it. Why is it anyone else's business to say otherwise?
That question would make a good thread. I answered it from my perspective in a previous post.
And precisely why, since finding out, I haven't intervened when I've seen men flirting with him. Once I knew for myself that he was being dishonest with me it was none of my business what he was doing with others. But now that he's gone. . .
Fair game, I guess. No need to get offended.
"No ray of sunshine is ever lost, but the green which it awakes into existence needs time to sprout, and it is not always granted to the sower to see the harvest. All work that is worth anything is done in faith." - Albert Schweitzer