Has anyone else ever been tormented by the What I should have said?
You know- a person insults you and you come back with the perfect come back later- okay naybe except for the NT's who are good at that- but also when you know you said something that didn't come out right or sounded completely different then you intended - but the situation passed before you could explain yourself!
I HAVE!!!!!!!!AM!!!!!!!!!!!!ALWAYS WILL!!!!!!!!
Okay- here is one of my I SHOULD HAVE SAIDs
Girl- I don't like dogs-you can BEAT them and they still love you the dumb animals- they are door mats- you have to earn a Cat's love and cat's are better blah blah blah.
I didn't say anything.
In my head I was thinking- but your cat bites you all the time and is vicious with you and others-and you let it treat both you and other's that way, my Ni is saying something doesn't add up here but I can't organize it in time to respond.
I should have said- Well I would rather have a dog then BE the dog in the relationship! You're the dumb animal!
Air out your Should have saids here!