Desperado: one cannot lump all of woman-kind in with one another. I prefer to follow MBTI to get a general consensus of what a group feels rather than what's between their legs. There are also cultural considerations to be made.
Let's just say this: if you're trying to extract a solid line of rhyme or reason from females, and you get gibberish... well then maybe the problem lies with the question/direction rather than the ones it asks.
Practice random kindness and senseless acts of beauty.
If you want to know what makes a man, all you have to do is read these few lines of wisdom below from The Big Lebowski. I think they'll answer all your questions.
LEBOWSKI: It's funny. I can look back on a life of achievement, on challenges met, competitors bested, obstacles overcome. I've accomplished more than most men, and without the use of my legs. What... What makes a man, Mr. Lebowski?
DUDE: I don't know, sir.
LEBOWSKI: Is it... is it, being prepared to do the right thing? Whatever the price? Isn't that what makes a man?