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    Quote Originally Posted by erinavery View Post
    so what...basically 3...4 people on here including me have gone through a party phase!!?? i thought everyone did that in their early 20's...no??
    Nope.

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    Quote Originally Posted by file cabinet View Post
    When/why did it start? If you stopped, why? what kind of activities did/do you partake it? what is your definition of 'partying' ?
    If you didn't, or haven't yet gone through a party phase, what do you think of the idea?

    party on...
    Yes, my first two years of college - age 18 to about 20.

    It started because I hadn´t had any social life in high school and wanted to try to fit in with ´everyone else´.

    I did a LOT of drinking, and also went out dancing a lot. Also joined a sorority. HA.

    I stopped because I realized I was becoming a binge drinker of sorts and could forsee myself going down the road of alcoholism if I wasn´t careful. Also at pretty much the same time I realized it wasn´t really ´Me´and I was just trying to cover up social anxiety with alcohol and numb my feelings. Also I realized I rather despised all of the drinkers/partiers and the scene in general, and thought all of it was kind of pathetic and a waste of time and a waste of ones life.

    And..after two years of that..it got kind of old. Been there, done that sort of thing. Got it out of my system, so to speak. Now I only really feel the urge to go out and ´party´/drink maybe once every 2 to 3 months. I´d rather just hang out with friends somewhere lowkey otherwise.
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    So anyway... why exactly would you have a "party phase" why would you stop partying?

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    I never had a party phase; nobody ever invited me to parties anyways.

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    18-21 but it was more of a drinking phase than partying phase.

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    At 18 & 19 I went through all the bars in town several/night, so yes.. But it was mostly because of peer pressure. Most of the people I knew were party people so, there wasn't much else to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lukepd View Post
    So anyway... why exactly would you have a "party phase"
    Friends are permanently in one.
    why would you stop partying?
    Gets old, can't hack it anymore.

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