Well, that's really another debate. Is it dirtier to think of deviant sex, or graphic violence?
As a T, I'm going to have to say sex. Violence doesn't phase me that much (in the theoretical, detached, observation sense). If we're talking what impacts me more then it could change. Basically the hang up is the word dirty, to me that implies kinky. Violence and sex don't merge in my world.
My cold, snide, intellectual life is just a veneer, behind which lies the plywood of loneliness.