For me, I care particularly about the accurate representation of information especially when they're delivered to people as "truth". Pseudo-science or misinterpretation of scientific results frustrates me.
Being told that I don't work hard enough. Or that I don't try hard enough, or I don't think hard enough. Or that I'm not competent enough. That I'm a failure.
I know that I'm pretty deficient feelings-wise, so I try in that arena and accept criticism about not being open enough. But question my work ethic, or my work attitude and I will blow up.
Definitely this. Because i'm so scared of it, it doesn't happen a lot, though. When it does I can more often than not disregard it as rubbish, but I still feel pissed off about it to the point that I want to kill the person who said it.
Once I had worked really bloody hard for an entire day, gotten pretty much everything and a lot more than I had planned done... I was literally sweating gallons because I had worked so hard... Then I sat down for five and answered a text message on my cell... Then my boss walks in and thought that I had been sitting about all day... Took some serious showing of the results to get him to think differently... But he was still pissed off that I did really well and then took a non-scheduled break. -_- ESTJ. I planned on actually killing him a couple of times. People would have celebrated whoever did it... The guy is generally hated. For real... He's not just a nuisance.
I wonder if ESTJ's are the most common murder victims?
Mightier than the tread of marching armies is the power of an idea whose time has come
I'm unsure of to describe this. Usually I come up with a definitive answer for all the introspective stuff. I'm mostly insensitive, which is clear for everyone - but - perhaps sometimes I attach to something, need and want something.. and become sensitive.
Perhaps I can be sensitive about anything I deeply care about. Uh. So what's it, then? I've cried a few times for disappointing my girlfriend or hurting her feelings. I've cried because of loss of connection. Just that.. those situations quickly make me indifferent, independent and insensitive.. which is a pity, as I won't bond with her like that if there's something that says to me inside, "don't care".
my appearance, (thats just my ego), the work that I do, and people who are very vulnerable... (the elderly, mentally ill, children, people who have illness that they did not cause, people who can't walk/lose their independence)