Its also true, The Poriferan, that neither murkrow nor nihilen ever had anything even semblant of contributory in their goodie bags. Perhaps invitation is contingent upon the gifts you bring, moreso than your demeanor at the party.
Demeanor is important, especially if you take your dick out at the party. But, maybe if you're likable or people feel sorry for you, you can take your dick out at the party? Is that what you mean?
Maybe demeanor is important.
I choose to keep my actual infraction history a secret.
More fun to keep you all guessing.
Lets say you're right, and demeanor is important. I must have brought a pretty kick ass gift for the birthday person so they let me stay anyway.