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09-09-2008, 05:33 PM
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Love Languages for SPs
Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, Physical Touch.
For Quality Time, I think that's always in the top 3 of anyone's list so let's not include that. For me as an ISTP it's 1. Receiving Gifts and 2. Acts of Service and 3. Words of Affirmation I've come across ESTPs and they seem to be 1. Acts of Service 2. Words of Affirmation and 3. Physical Touch. not sure about ESFPs. ISFPs I think it seems to be 1. Acts of Service 2. Physical Touch 3. Receiving Gifts. |
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09-09-2008, 05:48 PM
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Food, Football, and Fuhhhh...physical touch.
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09-09-2008, 06:13 PM
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I kinda see acts of service as equivalent to gifts.
So I'd rank them 1. physical touch 2. acts of service/gifts (if personal) 3. affirming words 4. gifts (if nonpersonal, ex flowers) I think they're all important for everyone though, to varying degrees. edit: quality time would be first, if you're counting that now. Last edited by Randomnity; 09-10-2008 at 02:18 PM. |
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09-09-2008, 06:53 PM
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you'll get over it
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i like to give:
1) acts of service 2) physical touch/quality time 3) words of affirmation 4) gifts to receive: 1) quality time 2) physical touch 3) acts of service 4) words of affirmation 5) gifts Last edited by Grayscale; 09-10-2008 at 06:26 PM. |
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09-09-2008, 08:30 PM
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I'm an ISTP, and I've had a really hard time typing my love language. I'm probably Quality time, even though some people don't really believe in it. I also speak Acts of service.
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09-10-2008, 12:59 AM
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For me, it's: 1. Words of affirmation 2. Physical touch 3. Quality time Gifts and acts of service are great, but not quite as essential as the Big Three. Sarah ISFP |
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09-10-2008, 01:38 AM
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Pwning Life Since 1986
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My strongest is definitely quality time to discuss ideas and thoughts and feelings and interpretations of events and philosophical issues. As a shadow SP, I find that touch isn't so important to me until I'm a little stressed, even with very small things to the point where I'm not even aware I'm stressed--I really relish touch when I'm stressed.
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09-10-2008, 01:41 AM
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RIP
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What, is this out of some book or something?
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