Which is the most aggressive type?

grendiecat · 06-06-2008, 02:54 AM

I had a miserable experience with a consultant today, over the last couple days really. I'm an ENFJ, Project Manager, seeking cooperation, consensus if possible, and may have to work with a really aggressive, hostile consultant lacking even rudimentary social skills. What kind of type might be? I need a strategy and even that may not save me with this oaf. I'm sure he's an E, can't be an N. An ES something? Who is the ENFJ's natural enemy--heh heh?

entropie · 06-06-2008, 03:52 AM

He, himself, definetly

Athenian200 · 06-06-2008, 08:22 AM

My candidates for most aggressive type:

ESTJ
ESTP
ISTJ

I'm guess ESTJ's, ESTP's, or ISTJ's depending on the context. But I think ST's (especially STJ's) in general are the most aggressive.

Te bluntness and shadow Fi make them come off a little abrasive at times.

Leysing · 06-06-2008, 10:54 AM

My ISTJ father is about the least aggressive person in the world. I'm an INFP and I'm more aggressive than he is

Athenian200 · 06-06-2008, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Leysing

My ISTJ father is about the least aggressive person in the world. I'm an INFP and I'm more aggressive than he is

What about the two ESTx types, then? I suppose I's should be less aggressive.

Although the you being an INFP and being aggressive thing could be due to an ESTJ shadow... or is it vice-versa and INFPs are really the aggressive ones that ESTJ's sometimes act out negatively?

Leysing · 06-06-2008, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Athenian200

What about the two ESTx types, then? I suppose I's should be less aggressive.

Es sure display their aggression more openly. And ESTJs with their dominant Te...

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Although the you being an INFP and being aggressive thing could be due to an ESTJ shadow... or is it vice-versa and INFPs are really the aggressive ones that ESTJ's sometimes act out negatively?

I've heard that I can be frighteningly aggressive when I'm stressed, so I think it's the ESTJ shadow.

luminous beam · 06-06-2008, 12:37 PM

i'm IxFP so in my case would my shadow be ExTJ? because it sure feels like i can act ENTJ as well as ESTJ.

luminous beam · 06-06-2008, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by grendiecat

I had a miserable experience with a consultant today, over the last couple days really. I'm an ENFJ, Project Manager, seeking cooperation, consensus if possible, and may have to work with a really aggressive, hostile consultant lacking even rudimentary social skills. What kind of type might be? I need a strategy and even that may not save me with this oaf. I'm sure he's an E, can't be an N. An ES something? Who is the ENFJ's natural enemy--heh heh?

how is he agressive? describe some of his typical behavior. how is that you or others approach him and how does he react?

Xander · 06-06-2008, 03:01 PM

ESTJ, ENTJ, ENFJ.

I'd put those three at the top of my list.

Do it like this or else,
My ways best stop arguing
and
My word is the word of GOD!

Extroverts with J preference.. Why? Cause they see black and white and they let you know about it (that's a horrible stereotype but it does serve as a good guide).

Ath,
What kind of ISTJ do you know???

scantilyclad · 06-06-2008, 04:47 PM

I'd say ESTJ, i've also met some pretty agressive ENTJs

06-06-2008, 02:54 AM	#1 (permalink)
grendiecat Member Join Date: May 2008 Type: ENFJ Location: Chicago Posts: 49	Which is the most aggressive type? I had a miserable experience with a consultant today, over the last couple days really. I'm an ENFJ, Project Manager, seeking cooperation, consensus if possible, and may have to work with a really aggressive, hostile consultant lacking even rudimentary social skills. What kind of type might be? I need a strategy and even that may not save me with this oaf. I'm sure he's an E, can't be an N. An ES something? Who is the ENFJ's natural enemy--heh heh?

06-06-2008, 03:52 AM	#2 (permalink)
entropie Liasion man in Amsterdam Join Date: Apr 2008 Type: entq Location: Bochum, Germany Posts: 5,205	He, himself, definetly __________________ pocket estj Enneagram: 3w4 "Now is the dramatic moment of fate, Watson, when you hear a step upon the stair which is walking into your life, and you know not whether for good or ill." ~Sir Arthur Conan Doyle [Mind.in.a.Box] -------

06-06-2008, 08:22 AM	#3 (permalink)
Athenian200 Fragmented Being Join Date: Jul 2007 Type: InfJ Location: C:\ Posts: 5,778	My candidates for most aggressive type: ESTJ ESTP ISTJ I'm guess ESTJ's, ESTP's, or ISTJ's depending on the context. But I think ST's (especially STJ's) in general are the most aggressive. Te bluntness and shadow Fi make them come off a little abrasive at times. __________________ "I'm not much more than an interpreter, and not very good at telling stories. Well, not at making them interesting, anyways." --C3-P0, Star Wars IV: A New Hope

06-06-2008, 12:37 PM	#7 (permalink)
luminous beam Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Type: INFP Location: northern VA, DC metro area Posts: 360	i'm IxFP so in my case would my shadow be ExTJ? because it sure feels like i can act ENTJ as well as ESTJ. __________________ "my headphones, they save my life" I-56%,x-50%,F-62%,P-56% IxFP-75%, ExFJ-63% , IxFJ-61%, ExFP-60%, IxTJ-48%, ExTP-47%, IxTP-45% , ExTJ-33%

06-06-2008, 03:01 PM	#9 (permalink)
Xander Pretty Vacant Join Date: Apr 2007 Type: INTP Location: Coventry, England Posts: 3,331	ESTJ, ENTJ, ENFJ. I'd put those three at the top of my list. Do it like this or else, My ways best stop arguing and My word is the word of GOD! Extroverts with J preference.. Why? Cause they see black and white and they let you know about it (that's a horrible stereotype but it does serve as a good guide). Ath, What kind of ISTJ do you know??? __________________ INTP 9. A new breed of hero. Every man is like every other man, like some other men, like no other men. Mary McCaulley A diplomat... is a person who can tell you to go to hell in such a way that you actually look forward to the trip. - Caskie Stinnett All is denial, projection and avoidance.

06-06-2008, 10:54 AM	#4 (permalink)
Leysing Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Type: FiSi Posts: 321	My ISTJ father is about the least aggressive person in the world. I'm an INFP and I'm more aggressive than he is

06-06-2008, 04:47 PM	#10 (permalink)
scantilyclad almost nekkid Join Date: Aug 2007 Type: INFP Location: Where Everything is Bigger. Posts: 1,800	I'd say ESTJ, i've also met some pretty agressive ENTJs __________________ INFP 4w5 Myspace The pain won't let me get away.

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