These types seem to exist outside their own sexuality. Sex is to be metabolized psychologically for them in an almost roundabout way - as an emotional entity, or possibly even an intellectual exercise. In a partner, they are looking for someone who will deal with (and protect) their quirks and understand their sexuality on the same intellectual/emotional level.
Yup... I don't want reform or "improvement." I want acceptance, and the freedom to grow at my own pace. I think I may have that now. No clue as to what my GF's type is.
These types, like the conquerors, express their sexuality openly. In daily life they may tend to be rather submissive and as a result may tend to carry over these tendencies into their romantic life. They are won over by indirect acts of submission, and are thrilled when their love interest (in the case of the "psuedo-aggressor" type) acts unlike himself. In a partner, they are looking for their equal - someone whose solid facade they can break down piece by piece.
This is really accurate for me. But I have to think there's some mutual feeling there to really get into it. I just push the boundary more and more if I think there is. No way can I relate to Pseudo-Caregiver/Student, so it confirms I'm not IEE.
Supposedly, my erotic attitude is "victim." I never really identified with this description until I started putting together the pieces of the theory that ENFj is a natural "performer" or "actor." Then the idea of being an erotic "victim" made some embarrassing sense. What I want (given that, deep down, I want to be a "superstar/rock star/performer") is to be the victim of a bevy of fangirls throwing themselves at me constantly.
Because I'm sx dominant, however, just one completely-devoted fangirl will do. I still haven't found one.
MBTI: ENFJ M/B Functional Stack: Dominant--Fe, Auxilliary--Ni, Tertiary--Se, Inferior--Ti Ego (Jungian): FeNi Socionics: EIE-Fe, Beta Socionics Functional Stack: Program--Fe, Creative--Ni, Role--Te, PoLR--Si Enneagram Type 1 Tritype 136 Big Five: SCOEI - sxO|E|i Alignment: Lawful Good House: Slytherin (the "ethical teacher" type, i.e. Severus Snape) Color Code: Blue (intimacy-driven) Soul Type: Educator