K look, I don't know how socionics labels this, but in MBTI terms you're typically better off with someone who shares P/J with you. If that's the opposite of the way socionics letters it, then fine, but the idea is still the same.
If you are an external organizer, find another external organizer. (MBTI calls these people Js.) If you an internal organizer, find yourself another internal organizer (MBTI calls these people Ps.)
That's about as far as it goes before descending into total inconsistency, unfortunately.