ENFP Female + ISTJ male-How to make it work

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Originally Posted by AvereX

the good thing about being polar opposites is that,
you operate on the same wave-length,
but from different perspectives

its difficult to look to your shadow for guidance
but its the most potent and hidden wisdom in that,
under stress, your " opposite " self appears

doing so may be of great benefit,
but it starts within
and if he cannot or will not do the same
ISTJ or not..........its not a relationship
right ?

What does that mean? Doesn't everyone?