I accidentally hurt an ISFJ's feelings... now what do I do?!

[Grungemouse]

You know, the assistant may have just been PMSing. :/ Not all ISFJs are that bad, normally. They tend to be fairly stoic.

[Jen]

Originally Posted by Grungemouse

You know, the assistant may have just been PMSing. :/ Not all ISFJs are that bad, normally. They tend to be fairly stoic.

hehe maybe. i was thinking menopause perhaps. i know i was generalizing, but it was purely out of frustration. ;P

[Grungemouse]

Originally Posted by Jen

hehe maybe. i was thinking menopause perhaps. i know i was generalizing which but it was purely out of frustration. ;P

I understand. I'm tempted to do the same with ESTPs; I despise my brother. :P

[d@v3]

Originally Posted by Jen

Also I know someone who I suspect is an ISFJ who I actually really like a lot but something happened along the way (not completely sure what) and nothing I do will ever make things right in her eyes again so I have to let it go. I can grovel and try to connect all I want but I will likely be wasting my time plus that is just too draining. It's a shame for me because I rarely find a person who I admire as much as I do this person.

...An SJ never forgets ... BUT that is no excuse to hold a grudge. I personally cannot hold a grudge unless it is REALLY bad (betrayal?) or a personal attack, not on me, but on one of my family members.