What do you most like about xSFJ's?

BerberElla · 11-06-2008, 10:40 AM

This is my homage to the xSFJ types.

You make me feel safe.
You make me feel cared for.
You go out of your way to see that I am comfortable whenever I visit, you even make sure to have things you know I like for snacks or drinks.
When I pass out drunk on your floor you put me to bed and cover me up.
You are so together.
You stop me from acting on my aggressive impulses when we go out to a gig or a bar, knowing that I am way too irrational to notice that the guy I'm about to smack could easily beat me up.

But you just laugh and don't make me feel guilty about it.
Infact you do all you can to make sure I don't have another excuse to beat myself up with guilt because you know I do it alll the time.
You are so clean and tidy.
You are graceful.
You have fantastic taste in clothes and interior decorating.
If I could choose my parent I would choose your type because I know I would have had a childhood worth remembering.

I love you guys.

Trinity · 11-06-2008, 11:01 AM

My ESFJ mate

Contacts me, jokes about how difficult I am to get in touch with and how I never call him but keeps doing it anyway cause he knows I love him but I’m not good with staying in contact.

Gentle and full of talk and bravado but would punch the lights out of anyone who bothered me if he thought I was in danger in a second.

Genuinely cares about people, will talk to anyone and everyone he meets has an opportunity to become a friend.

Completely honest and trust worthy, his word counts.

Basically a big giant teddy-bear who would kill for me

My ISFJ friend

Motherly, respectful and caring 100% of the time.

Other people always matter to her and everyone is treated with respect.

Will do what she says, no matter what.

Soft spoken and unassuming but can let loose and enjoy the moment.

Gratitude is authentic.

One of the best people to get together in a small group, have a glass of wine and chat about what's important to those around her.

BerberElla · 11-06-2008, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Trinity

My ESFJ mate

Contacts me, jokes about how difficult I am to get in touch with and how I never call him but keeps doing it anyway cause he knows I love him but I’m not good with staying in contact.

I wish more of my friends understood that, I am terrible at keeping in contact because I live in the clouds lol my ISFJ friend hasn't ever let that stop her which is why she is one of my most bff ever.

Giggly · 11-08-2008, 09:53 PM

Awww thank you, Berberella and Trinity.

On behalf of all SFJ's, I'd like to say that we love you too.

Aimahn · 11-08-2008, 09:57 PM

Yea I have to second the love fest.

I love how diligent and noble SFJ's are in making sure everyone is happy. I sometimes rely on them a little too much to keep me in a happy state. They're sick enough to get some pleasure out of it, so why not get some pleasure out of it.

ygolo · 11-08-2008, 09:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BerberElla

This is my homage to the xSFJ types.

You make me feel safe.
You make me feel cared for.
You go out of your way to see that I am comfortable whenever I visit, you even make sure to have things you know I like for snacks or drinks.
You are so together.
Infact you do all you can to make sure I don't have another excuse to beat myself up with guilt because you know I do it alll the time.
You are so clean and tidy.
You are graceful.
You have fantastic taste in clothes and interior decorating.
If I could choose my parent I would choose your type because I know I would have had a childhood worth remembering.

I love you guys.

I agree with all of the above.

Giggly · 11-08-2008, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Aimahn

Yea I have to second the love fest.

I love how diligent and noble SFJ's are in making sure everyone is happy. I sometimes rely on them a little too much to keep me in a happy state. They're sick enough to get some pleasure out of it, so why not get some pleasure out of it.

lawl 'tis true. We are sick enough to get pleasure out of that. You have an SFJ sister, right?

Aimahn · 11-08-2008, 10:20 PM

Mom.

But both my sisters are NF's (ENFP and INFJ) so I get a lot of love.

lorkan · 11-10-2008, 09:18 PM

I love them because they care to listen to your opinions and like hearing theirs, they are very wise and there always seems to exist more in them that meets the eye.

Morgan Le Fay · 11-10-2008, 09:25 PM

Kindness, generosity, selflessness, loyalty.

11-06-2008, 10:40 AM	#1 (permalink)
BerberElla Changing Join Date: Sep 2008 Type: infp Location: The land of marmite and tea Posts: 2,690	What do you most like about xSFJ's? This is my homage to the xSFJ types. You make me feel safe. You make me feel cared for. You go out of your way to see that I am comfortable whenever I visit, you even make sure to have things you know I like for snacks or drinks. When I pass out drunk on your floor you put me to bed and cover me up. You are so together. You stop me from acting on my aggressive impulses when we go out to a gig or a bar, knowing that I am way too irrational to notice that the guy I'm about to smack could easily beat me up. But you just laugh and don't make me feel guilty about it. Infact you do all you can to make sure I don't have another excuse to beat myself up with guilt because you know I do it alll the time. You are so clean and tidy. You are graceful. You have fantastic taste in clothes and interior decorating. If I could choose my parent I would choose your type because I know I would have had a childhood worth remembering. I love you guys. __________________ Echo - "So are you trying to say she is Evil" DeWitt - "Something far worse, she's an Idealist" Berb's Johari Berb's Nohari

11-06-2008, 11:01 AM	#2 (permalink)
Trinity ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ Join Date: May 2008 Type: ante Location: La-La Land Posts: 6,466	My ESFJ mate Contacts me, jokes about how difficult I am to get in touch with and how I never call him but keeps doing it anyway cause he knows I love him but I’m not good with staying in contact. Gentle and full of talk and bravado but would punch the lights out of anyone who bothered me if he thought I was in danger in a second. Genuinely cares about people, will talk to anyone and everyone he meets has an opportunity to become a friend. Completely honest and trust worthy, his word counts. Basically a big giant teddy-bear who would kill for me My ISFJ friend Motherly, respectful and caring 100% of the time. Other people always matter to her and everyone is treated with respect. Will do what she says, no matter what. Soft spoken and unassuming but can let loose and enjoy the moment. Gratitude is authentic. One of the best people to get together in a small group, have a glass of wine and chat about what's important to those around her. __________________

11-08-2008, 09:57 PM	#5 (permalink)
Aimahn Fearful Join Date: Jul 2008 Type: INTP Posts: 1,810	Yea I have to second the love fest. I love how diligent and noble SFJ's are in making sure everyone is happy. I sometimes rely on them a little too much to keep me in a happy state. They're sick enough to get some pleasure out of it, so why not get some pleasure out of it. __________________ My cold, snide, intellectual life is just a veneer, behind which lies the plywood of loneliness.

11-08-2008, 10:20 PM	#8 (permalink)
Aimahn Fearful Join Date: Jul 2008 Type: INTP Posts: 1,810	Mom. But both my sisters are NF's (ENFP and INFJ) so I get a lot of love. __________________ My cold, snide, intellectual life is just a veneer, behind which lies the plywood of loneliness.

11-10-2008, 09:25 PM	#10 (permalink)
Morgan Le Fay nothing gold can stay Join Date: Sep 2008 Type: INTP Posts: 4,987	Kindness, generosity, selflessness, loyalty. __________________ All rules have exceptions (including this one).

11-08-2008, 09:53 PM	#4 (permalink)
Giggly FeFiSiSe Join Date: Jun 2008 Type: iSFj Posts: 3,980	Awww thank you, Berberella and Trinity. On behalf of all SFJ's, I'd like to say that we love you too.

11-10-2008, 09:18 PM	#9 (permalink)
lorkan Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Type: INFJ Location: Sweden Posts: 239	I love them because they care to listen to your opinions and like hearing theirs, they are very wise and there always seems to exist more in them that meets the eye.

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