What do you most like about xSFJ's?

[Kaizer]

Originally Posted by bluemonday

Kindness, generosity, selflessness, loyalty.

I used to hope I'd preempt Jennifer ..now theres blue too!

& Introverts are a natural preference *no reason*

[bronte]

the isfjs I know - gentleness, loyalty, organising ability, moved by the plight of others, always offer to help, good listeners, gigglers - very infectious

esfjs - hosts and hostesses of the world, always doing something nice for someone, great huggers, just get on with it - organised and efficient, big sense of fun, special ability to make others feel good about themselves - open and honest.

[batumi]

Modest, unassuming, and stoic.

[whatever]

Originally Posted by Trinity

My ESFJ mate

Contacts me, jokes about how difficult I am to get in touch with and how I never call him but keeps doing it anyway cause he knows I love him but I’m not good with staying in contact.

Gentle and full of talk and bravado but would punch the lights out of anyone who bothered me if he thought I was in danger in a second.

Genuinely cares about people, will talk to anyone and everyone he meets has an opportunity to become a friend.

Completely honest and trust worthy, his word counts.

Basically a big giant teddy-bear who would kill for me

Sounds almost EXACTLY like my good ESFJ male friend- I miss him

ESFJ female friends- track me down and drag me out to socialize with them, patiently put up with my random ramblings, are completely loyal and trustworthy- they have a WARMTH that I lack

ISFJ mother- devoted to those she loves, concerned about things, dependable, shows interest in things just because I'm enthusiastic about them, gentle, loves animals and flowers, artistic talent... a good person