[ISTJ] How to make an ISTJ swoon

[ArbiterDewey]

Make the unexpected pleasant. For example, one day in my last relationship I mentioned that I liked the way her face looked without her glasses. I mentioned that without her glasses you could see her eyes more clearly, and so forth. I said it tactfully and nice, and she didn't seem to react to it. However, each time after that, she always had her contacts in. I was surprisingly warmed by the fact that she was doing something that I said that I liked, albeit a two sentence nothing. I loved it.

Who knows really? We ISTJ's are a fun lot, lol.

 

[Amargith]

Mmm, that is IMHO a typical female thing *smiles* I mean, most women I know will gladly wear something or change something because their mate prefers it. We love to please

 

[Bella]

Oh, goodness....
Don't rouse the femininsts from their slumber.

 

[SillySapienne]

You rang?

 

[Bella]

lol!
too funny.

 

[Amargith]

aww come on, I'm all for feminism and equal rights but I do celebrate the differences between genders with delight as well


And CC: LOL

 

[RiderOnTheStorm]

An ISTJ I was with would love it when the house was clean. LOL, but seriously -_- that was annoying.

 

[Valiant]

A friend of mine who lives right above me loves to talk about serial killers. He has tested ISTJ a few times. He's also "suffering" from OCD. But he doesn't collect stuff or anything, he's just awfully clean. He totally fears germs, his apartment is clean as an army barracks. To make him "swoon" you've got to have a really good hand hygiene, be on time, be intelligent, conservative, like weird sex stuff, serial killers and preferably knives.

 

[Bella]

Uhm, liking knives, weird sex and serial killers is not conservative.

(Your friend needs help methinks.)

 

[Valiant]

He's not really crazy. It's just an attitude he's got, he likes freaking people out
Sometimes I have actually seen him genuinely emotional about others... He's not in the danger zone. He's got friends, a stable job and a girlfriend that he seriously loves above everything else, and a healthy relationship with his family.

 

[Bella]

Oh....good.

 

[PinkIceTD]

You know Anja, I think you should write a manual for woman who love or are trying to woo ISTJ's, and sell it here. moonbaby, I'm sure, will love an autographed copy.

(then again, apart from her, it might be a dying market)

We shall never die out as long as there are ISTJs to be wooed.

Where can I buy a copy of aforementioned manual?

 

[moonbaby]

You know Anja, I think you should write a manual for woman who love or are trying to woo ISTJ's, and sell it here. moonbaby, I'm sure, will love an autographed copy.

(then again, apart from her, it might be a dying market)

Ha! Well myself and a slew of nf's!!

 

[swordpath]

We shall never die out as long as there are ISTJs to be wooed.

 

[batumi]

Ha! Well myself and a slew of nf's!!

That's right, girl.

You tell 'em.

 

[batumi]

We shall never die out as long as there are ISTJs to be wooed.

Where can I buy a copy of aforementioned manual?

I think you and I and Moonbaby and some others could collaborate on this
and perhaps become instantly wealthy.
I have much to add, but as hot as it has become recently, I am holding
back for the bucks.

:hi:

 

[fishingdude]

The very, very basics:

Don't be late.
Don't be loud.
Have zero flakiness.

I agree.

Give me a problem to solve or something. We get bored without something to do. Plenty of praise is good too, but only if it's genuine and deserved. NEVER be phony.