By the above, do you mean that you - "think its surprising and unusual to meet one (an ENFP) that isn't aggressively destroying their own body." ???
If so, that's silly.
How many times have ESTPs been cast as reckless party animals?
Does that claim pertain to the majority of ESTPs?
I doubt it.
Does that claims pertain to the majority of ENFPs?
I doubt it again.