To me ENFP's are expressive and optimitic and INFP's are loners and lean towards the pessimitic side YET they both care deeply
Am I wrong?
I'm an INFP and I find that I have a hard time communicating my thoughts and feelings yet ENFP's seem almost naturals at it
Do you think the difference is simply underdeveloped interpersonal skills?
I would like to know your opinions
That's just the E, it's like cocaine but cheaper.
But seriously, I'm extremely pessimistic. (on the other hand) I don't really have to make an effort to become an optimist about certain personal things.
I have problems communicating what I want and want to say in heated moments, especially when they are personal without being too aggressive but I do WAY too well when it comes to making (superficial) good impressions on bosses, co-workers, teachers etc., I've never been able to figure out why people like me so much.
But prolonged exposure to me reveals loose cannon-ism and I end up alienating all the superficial friends I've made with the crazy.
And I think
way too much. So much that I pass up doing in favor of thinking of doing.
I live in my head because if I don't I fear I'll disappear. But I've noticed that I'm more eager to share my insane inner world with people than my infp friends and that my inner world is deep but not as deep as my infps friends. And centered around something totally different. I can get completely lost in an issue and be all over it to the point of forgetting myself, sanity.
I wish I was ISFP because then I could easily turn my inner world into the reality I want them to be.