I have a dear friend who is ENTJ and he enjoys socialising and loud parties with lots of people drinking, dancing and talking about superficial stuff. He told me I need to get out and have some fun but then we discussed what fun actually meant for each of us.
It never occurred to him that his idea of fun was something I would avoid like the plague. My idea of fun is a few people to whom I feel close (or maybe an interesting couple of people I have never met) having a few quiet drinks and maybe a meal at one of our homes, then talking about meaty topics while listening to good music in the background.
I am curious - what is your idea of fun - is it determined by your typological preferences or something else entirely, or a combination of both?