I've read through these points and I don't see any of them pointing to an INTJ in particular.
Practically all NT's have a perfectionistic streak as well as plenty of NF's and SJ's. Perfectionism in this one way just shows that she is probably not an SP.*she has a perfectionistic streak (she talked about how she had a mini-meltdown in the car when she realized that her singing wasn't *perfect* after listening to a recording of herself, like she wanted it to be for June Carter and pretty much gave up the role but was forced back into it)
The "hands off" style which allows a person to develop their strenghts is really an NP style more than anything.*she talks about how important it is to give kids space to dream up things for themselves; she says she doesn't babysit her kids and they often have room to be by themselves and do their own thing. she doesn't baby them; she wants them to develop to their own full potential and she thinks watching over them all the time like obsessive parents gets in teh way of their development
The ability to learn is something that any type has. The fact that she was interested in personality types really slants her toward ENFP. If she were an INTJ I'd expect her to be into building lego fortresses, or tearing things apart to see how they work and then putting them back together a new way, or maybe just sitting by herself and brooding a lot.*the "type A" label, as mentioned above (which she clairifies as being called that b/c as a kid she knew all the proper terms of behaviors and medical conditions, etc., which is an INTJ thing)
She really doesn't have the personality of an INTJ. Especially if you consider that from the clips it is pretty obvious that she is both E and F.
All N's are capable of doing this. NF's feel strongly about doing what is right rather that what is popular or politically correct.*she stands up for the truth as opposed to being politically correct/keeping friends
This is both an I and a P trait. Since it's obvious that she is not I, then she must be a P.*incredibly independent
Or she's an ENFP who has a pet peeve about drink rings on the table.in my opinion, she's an INTJ who really respects relationships and developing humans. all the things like rings from drinks, etc. can totally be more appropriate as an INTJ.
Well I will say this: opinions about her type certainly vary widely. Maybe someone will post soon about how she is an ISTP.