Yeah, in my defense, I crushed on her a very long time ago at a very vulnerable time in my life. It's my goddamn curse with SFJs even though for the longest time I thought she was an ENFJ. Another SFJ quality I see with her, is that she can give you a full smile with her eyes wide open. It's a speculative point to make regarding this and a person's SFJ-ness, but I will never trust a woman who can smile like that.
I absolutely can't stand her now.
Also, there is something WEIRD going on with her face in general. Half the time she can look amazingly attractive, and the other half she looks like an alien, no exaggeration. My ex also had this quality about her that I found just really really unsettling. And I'm not sure it can be dismissed as camera, lighting, and makeup, either. I'm gong to try and find two examples that will isolate the variable I'm talking about.
I think the biggest difference is when she's smiling or not. When she smiles her face kind of flattens making all her weird features seem normal and actually quite attractive. When she's not smiling, well... it's UFO city.
It's amazing to me how certain I used to be that she was an N. Now, no matter how hard I think about it, she's definitely an S. This explains so much about my relationships with others - especially the ones that ended up in disaster. This is exactly why I came to this site in the first place.