...and how it interacts with feminism is discussed by Girl Writes What?!
I remember my reaction when I came to the realization of just how spot on the internalizing of this is for me personally and how society expects it. Men don't complain, it's perceived as weakness, whining and reduces our social value. Which is very important when you understand how males form their identity via their utility and what they "do" vs. simply being, for society and women.
What do you think? Are you "aware" of your disposability? How did you become aware of this? Is it needed anymore? Why/why not?