In fact, I even stated above that I favor gay marriage if this reduces the amount of promiscuity in the gay "community." Promiscuity increases the risk of spreading STDs.
But I disfavor the idea of an LGBT "community" (or any other political "community"), not just because it causes the spread of another "disease" known as group-think and all the intellectual distortion that plays along with it. In this case, those gays who are "outed" are forced into an identity "community" they may not want to belong to for various reasons, for example, they may not want the gay lifestyle and favor conversion. Identity politics in the gay "community" absolutely opposes such conversion, thus stifling the free-will of those who want to convert. (Whether or not they can convert is irrelevant.)
Being part of such a community is an all-or-nothing affair which breeds black-and-white thinking along with animosity against those who disagree with the group's belief systems.