The primary victims aren't the people who were killed. Nope, it's the women because for some reason it's just worse when a woman feels pain than when a man feels it. The tens of millions of men who died in wars in the 20th century? They're not primary victims. No, it's their mothers, wives, daughters and sisters who were at home while they were off fighting. The few men who survive never have to flee their homes, either. Male privilege!Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat. Women often have to flee from the only homes they have ever known. Women are often the refugees from conflict and sometimes, more frequently in today’s warfare, victims. Women are often left with the responsibility, alone, of raising the children.