Very interesting. In the real world, true to pattern, I do allow myself to feel things all the way through, but I don't fear that it will lead to a loss of control over my actions because it usually does not. To me: you've got the right to your full feelings, but also the right to choose not to let them stop you doing what you've got to do regardless.I'm the opposite, actually. I get drawn to stuff like that... I think because it's a safe opportunity to allow myself to be overwhelmed with emotion. I like when something can get inside me in that way.
If I'm guilty of this at all, it's real world stuff. I think I believe that if I get too wrapped up in that stuff, I"ll lose control, which I don't like.