I will never forget the two years I spent in a co-ed college while I was going to university. some of the experiences were great - others were terrifying.
One of the worst parts of "college culture" were all the chants that college boys would sing and yell (usually on buses going to college mixer events)
The FEAR that comes from being trapped on a bus for more than an hour with a whole crowd of young men chanting about sex (where the women are dehumanised), rape and violence, is truly horrifying. The fact that almost every single guy memorised the chants so they could be 'one of the guys' and 'participate in college life' is just awful. It was so normalised.
Equally awful is the way that the heads of college tolerated or ignored it - despite the terrible, damaging and dangerous ideas/behaviours it encourages.
It makes me feel sick and angry. My college experience should NOT have involved feeling threatened or unsafe.