And the child support thing is bull crap. You make a baby, you pay for it, STFU.
Yeah I really don't get this, which is why I am a third wave feminist. I also have no desire to be a man, or to do everything by myself. Well, I take that back, I actually am quite self-sufficient and pride myself on my ability to win at life, even if only a survival level, because this scrappiness allows me to take risks and go for what I really want. But no I don't want to be the career woman/supermom/let-me-do-everything...however I've noticed, just in my personal experience, SFJs doing this...like wanting to do everything because they're afraid other people won't do it "right." And maybe it's a Je thing in general, maybe Je types are more likely to have these control issues and romanticize it in theory, I don't know.I would have also loved to hear you pipe in about sex! I mean, half of those girls probably read Fifty Shades of Gray, but as soon as they put on their srs gender studies pants it's all: death to penis! They remind me of those freshman kids who take a bunch of intro arts courses and then start passionately quoting Ayn Rand while wearing their Che Guevara t-shirt.
I want to win every argument, but srsly take out the garbage and wash your own dishes, kthnxbai.