@ygolo im not sure what you guys aren't comprehending, maybe its your own sexist presumptions that raising children and cleaning and cooking aren't work, but yes being a stay at home dad is a perfectly acceptable job for a responsible man, if he actually takes care of the child and the home
i have dated men who like to clean house and do yardwork and care for pets, or even baby sit
I don't put them in the loser pile at all, and I don't know where you are getting this, unless its inside your own head
however dudes who just mooch aren't stay at home dads, they're like dependent children, unless they are disabled, and if disabled you can still help a little around the house, maybe even work part time from home
I am in no position to support a man financially, so I would not want to marry a stay at home dad unless I had the fiscal means to do so, its simply impractical.