My issue comes from the idea that worst way to deal with someone who has a problem with punching people in the face is to punch them in the face.. It feels fucking great no doubt.. But it defeats your original purpose of proving a behavior is wrong. It blows credibility.
What is the solution??.. To accept that people don't think and feel as you do.. That legalities exist to defend people against bias, but that ostracizing someone for ostracizing someone, is not the way to achieve your means.
That laws can change behavior but not how people think. not right away anyway.
That maybe understanding that if someone is against something that maybe they believe what they think or feel is right as well.. and to not label them with names or make personal attacks against them either for not sharing your views?
The laws protect you. Trying to change someones way of thinking is BIG BROTHER..
You set no new example. You simply fight fire with fire.. and then the whole democratic process submits to special interest.
I guess that is my fear.
Edit.. I just want to add.. that some gay people find the idea of straight sex disgusting.