I know that gay identity is this whole other thing comprising myriad conflicts and complexes whereas most heterosexuals just experience that orientation and get on with their lives, never marching about it, partying about it or requiring a whole series of reinforcement, encouragement, support or anything like that remain convinced of themselves. Is that what you mean? Sorry but could be difficult to fight a war if it interfers with pink tuesdays and a parade around the destroyers deck to provide sufficient evidence of support of a particular sexual orientation or sexual behaviour.
Then what if despite every single rule and regulation to the contrary someone fails to make someone feel accepted because of the private details of their private lives? The forces going to be protected against all the lawsuits that could be mobilised in that inevitable scenario?