I was listening to Erika Badu in the car the other day and she said "Nigga" referring to her man, guy, or dude...etc. My dad didnt like it whatsoever...he is part black, grew up in a time when racism was pretty extreme (the 50's & 60's).
I dont mind "nigga" if its being used in a pop culture, hip hop way. But if you say "Nigger" with an er' i find it to be reallllllly offensive. Dont ever use it to insult some one, thats a really low blow. Using that word will only make you look like a total asshole.
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I don't use it, and I although I could care less if other people do, I do wish it'd be one of those words simply lost to time. No one bites their thumbs at people anymore, unless it's referencing Romeo and Juliet.. I wish this word would disappear in a similar manner.
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words are just words. the intention is what counts.
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Ah, interesting. Here the using the word black to describe someone with a brownish complexion is considered pretty rude now. To be honest i rarely have any occaision to refer to skin colour at all but you know no-one is actually black, same way as no-one is actually white so umm
I read a stat that London's population of ethnic minorities is around 29% while a great chunk more are British-but third or fourth generation immigrants. It's so mixed here that referring to skin tone is pretty pointless, you'd need a colour swatch.
So anyway back to the topic,
nigga, nigger both seem pretty offensive to me, much like honkie, wop, paki etc
They are all pretty bad form.
I don't think the words are necessary but i do think that they should be de-sensitised, made less taboo.
Anyway thats my tuppence.
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Damn it feels good to be a gangsta
A real gangsta-ass nigga plays his cards right
A real gangsta-ass nigga never runs his fuckin mouth
Cuz real gangsta-ass niggas don't start fights
And niggas always gotta high cap
Showin' all his boys how he shot em
But real gangsta-ass niggas don't flex nuts
Cuz real gangsta-ass niggas know they got em
And everythings cool in the mind of a gangsta
Cuz gangsta-ass niggas think deep
Up three-sixty-five a year 24/7
Cuz real gangsta ass niggas don't sleep
I've rarely ever heard my (black) friends use the word "Nigger," but damn my
friend John says "Bro," a lot, and it confuses the hell out of me because he
calls his brother AND his friends "Bro". That's when I can shout "Bro this, bro
that. Nigger/dude, make up your mind!" and in return they go "Don't make us
go ebonics on your ass," make jokes, laugh, and dizz me for thirty minutes in
a casual way. John's brother says I'm defragmented And these guys
are New Yorkers, so you know the rest of the world can put up with it if
these guys can. I mean, if you can't talk / joke openly about shit like that
every now and then... then ugh... what a difficult world you must be living
in. You won't see my friends crying about it, and you won't see them disliking
me for joking around with it because they know I mean no harm and I'm just
up for some laughs. I joke a lot about white people too. Fat people. Skinny
people. Gays. Anti-Gays. You name it. I'll joke about EVERYTHING. So you
can sit on my middle finger and twirl if you don't like it
It's basically street language, and mostly younger culture centered on the rap world, and in that context, its use would be considered in confianza.
Still, others won't understand this, and it gives a possible "appearance of evil".