I expressed my feelings on the matter, such as they are, without any intent to argue. Then I got called names, disingenuous being one. "Disingenuous" means insincere, intentionally misleading, deceptive. I am not/was not insincere, intentionally misleading, or deceptive. I said what I wanted to say and I explained it as well as I could and more than I cared to.
I had violently ugly words put in my mouth, i.e., "sandniggers" and was treated as if I have no respect for other cultures. I got thinly veiled accusations of Naziism.
There was no intent to exchange ideas with mutual respect and courtesy, or listen to someone else's expression of feelings without accusing them of that greatest of sins, not being LOGICAL. Do you people read MBTI at all? I'm an INFJ. I would rather eat dirt that talk with people who evaluate every statement in terms of whether or not it presents a logical argument, and who ask me to explain and then don't listen to the explanation, or automatically jump to conclusions about every word I say and proceed from there, treating me like dirt in the process.
I was hoping to come back and read what you had to say to each other without getting into it, because you seem incapable of talking with me about my point of view without flagrantly talking down, insulting the way I put things, suspecting my motives, basically treating me like I've committed some heinous thought crime, and then instead of offering an apology for the repeated false accusations, take it a step further and have the brass balls to say you don't see where I was insulted and there was no call for me to take my ball and go home (another insult - implies I'm being childish and petulant) when I was "called out" about it. Sorry I didn't come out of my corner with my fists up when the whistle was called, but I keep trying to tell you, it's not my thing. I don't care to. I come here to enjoy my interactions with other people, not to debate and be called names and be backed into a corner with false accusations and to take on your projections. I chose not to participate in that. I hope we are clear now.