Just a couple of things for the record, my opposition and honest abhorrence for homosexuality isnt anything to do with my faith, which is accepting of homosexuality provided that it isnt practiced (in fact the RC faith would consider all sexual behaviour between heterosexuals which is not procreative to be a contravention of natural law and anathema, there are some discussion of contraceptive methods between men and women which are not artifical but that's a recent thing).
I also dont experience any fear of either homosexuals or homosexual acts either, homophobia's one of those things, if (and I believe it is) homosexuality is in reality, objectively, a minority habit then genuine homophobia is a smaller population again. Instead the political promotors of homosexuality suggest its even more pervasive than the homosexuality they suggest is already pervasive. At which point I tend to think they're just trying to close things down.
It'd be a bit like suggesting that all proponents of homosexuality were really heterophobic.