I don't know why someone hasn't yet pointed out that maybe he did not find her, maybe her list included 5 million guys and she found him.
But seriously, people are people. We claim to have lists, but usually we judge by the overall package and look-n-feel. (Anyone ever go out to buy a car and find themselves flexing based on how the vehicle resonates, regardless if it matches all the points you thought were SO important?) You might regret the decision later, true, when the thing(s) you wanted isn't there, but... you still end up making the purchase.
That seems like a great way to get a smack in the face... or arrested (but totally worth it).