There are a great number of women out there sadly, who view the system as "if yeu need more money, have another illegitimate kid for more child support payments".
And there are those who are alcoholic chain smoking junkies whose kids are in rags because they blow all their money on beer, smokes, and drugs. But they are ensured custody of the children half the time because they're female.
In some cases, those descriptions can be very, very accurate, as sad as it is, since alot of the time the money won't be going to the children at all.
Now this isn't all the time obviously, and probably well under half, but I think most of us, by this point, know of at least a few women with 3-5 kids all from different fathers, and doesn't work, nor really pay attention to the kids, and only seems to bother with marriage or children as a way to get more money.
And since they have that mindset... there's nothing to really stop them from just having more kids, further exasperating the situation >.<
All things are two sided, including this. Guys can be idiots who don't take the risks seriously. So can women, who can not only be like "I can just abort it", but can actively SEEK to have kids they can't support... both sides can really suck on this.
I agree, though, that alot of men are just asses about it. But I don't want to see this going one sided either. Both can be at fault.