How would you feel if your child one day dies for his/her country?
Would you be sad or sad but proud?
Would you cry for 3 months all the time?
Would you hurt yourself bacause you think that this is a consequence of a bad upbringing?
Would you blame government or army for this?
Would you do something else then mentioned above and why would you do it?
I think that everybody should take their time before they reply.